While kindness and niceness often overlap, there are indeed situations where acts of kindness may not necessarily align with traditional notions of being "nice." Here are some ways to show kindness that might challenge the boundaries of niceness: Setting Boundaries: Kindness sometimes means setting boundaries to prioritize your well-being and mental health. It may involve saying "no" to excessive demands or responsibilities that overwhelm you, even if it disappoints others. By taking care of yourself, you can show up more authentically and be of greater help when it truly matters. Honest Feedback: Kindness can involve providing constructive criticism or honest feedback to help someone grow and improve. While it may not always be pleasant to deliver or receive, offering genuine guidance and support can be an act of kindness that helps individuals develop their skills and achieve their goals. Challenging Injustice: Kindness extends beyond being polite; it involves standing up against injustice, discrimination, or harmful behaviours. Sometimes, being kind means having difficult conversations, advocating for marginalized voices, and promoting equality. It may require stepping out of one's comfort zone to address uncomfortable truths and work towards positive change. Tough Love: Kindness is not always about providing immediate comfort. At times, it means showing tough love and holding someone accountable for their actions. This approach involves setting firm boundaries and encouraging personal responsibility to foster growth and resilience. Active Listening: Kindness goes beyond merely hearing others; it involves active listening with empathy and without judgment. Sometimes, being truly present for someone means creating a safe space for them to express their emotions, even if it means facing uncomfortable truths or difficult conversations. Self-Reflection and Growth: Kindness begins within ourselves. Engaging in self-reflection, acknowledging our own flaws and biases, and committing to personal growth are acts of kindness that enable us to show up better for others and contribute positively to society. Remember, kindness is a multifaceted concept that may require stepping out of the comfort zone of being "nice." It prioritizes authentic care, empathy, and the long-term well-being of individuals and communities. By embracing these acts of kindness, we can make a more profound and lasting impact on the world around us and strengthen our bonds together.
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16/12/2013 1 Comment 'Tis the season'Tis the season to be merry...and to think about other people. While we're all celebrating, Christmas, Hanukkah, Thanksgivukkah - there are many people out there who are unable to celebrate. For many, the festive season can be a sad and lonely time. So, think about others. Have a canned food drive. Raise some money for a local soup kitchen. Give service to a local charity. Be of good cheer and spread Christmas joy around. Think about loved ones at home and far away. Think about the elderly. Celebrate the magic of the season with some young people who still see the magic all around them. Have a wonderful time - and be all that you can be for those around you.
As you progress, you will see where you have too many or not enough events, and when you might need to have planning and business meetings in order to achieve the social and philanthropic aims. Your executive board will also be able to schedule their meetings in and around other events. Once you have the plan decided - write the dates in your own planner/phone/calendar and circulate a list. That way you are less likely to double book yourself, and more likely to have high attendance at all sorority meetings.
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We acknowledge the Wurundjeri Woi Wurrung People of the Kulin Nation, who are the Traditional Owners of the land on which our organisation was founded, and pay our respect to their Elders past, present and emerging. We pay our respect to the traditional owners of the lands on which we meet all around the world.
Delta Kappa Nu Sorority, Inc. is welcoming to everyone who would like to be a sister, not just cis-ters.
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