Engaging in a comprehensive program on leadership, social justice, and philanthropy can equip individuals with a range of essential skills needed to create positive change and improve the lives of marginalized communities. This article explores the key skills that participants can acquire through such a program, highlighting their importance and potential impact. WE are looking at these ideas as we develop our leadership program for members to progress through. Some of the key outcomes we would like sisters who undertake this challenge are outlined below.

Empathy and Cultural Competence:
Understanding the experiences and perspectives of marginalized communities requires empathy and cultural competence. Participants learn to listen actively, develop an empathetic mindset, and engage in cross-cultural communication. These skills enable leaders to bridge gaps, foster inclusivity, and ensure that the voices of marginalized communities are heard and respected.

Ethical Leadership and Responsible Philanthropy:
Ethical leadership principles and responsible philanthropy practices are integral to making a meaningful and sustainable impact. Participants delve into case studies and engage in discussions that explore the ethical considerations and responsibilities of leaders and philanthropists. They learn to navigate potential pitfalls, uphold integrity, and make strategic decisions that prioritize the well-being of marginalized communities.

Collaborative and Inclusive Approaches:
Leadership for social justice requires collaboration and inclusive approaches. Participants develop skills in fostering collaboration, building partnerships, and leveraging diverse perspectives. They gain an appreciation for the power of collective action, learn to create inclusive spaces, and engage in cross-sector collaborations to maximize their impact.

Grassroots Mobilization and Community Organizing:
Grassroots movements have historically played a significant role in effecting social change. Participants acquire skills in grassroots mobilization, community organizing, and advocacy. They learn to build relationships, empower community members, mobilize resources, and create platforms for marginalized voices to be heard. These skills enable leaders to initiate and sustain grassroots movements that address systemic injustices.

Strategic Thinking and Decision-Making:
Leaders in social justice and philanthropy need strong strategic thinking and decision-making skills. Participants engage in exercises and simulations that hone their ability to analyse complex situations, think critically, and develop innovative solutions. They learn to navigate challenges, identify opportunities, and make informed decisions that advance the interests of marginalized communities.

Communication and Storytelling:
Effective communication and storytelling are powerful tools for driving social change. Participants develop skills in crafting compelling narratives, delivering persuasive messages, and engaging diverse audiences. They learn to communicate the stories and experiences of marginalized communities in a way that inspires empathy, raises awareness, and mobilizes support for their causes.

Action Planning and Implementation:
Turning ideas into tangible outcomes requires effective action planning and implementation. Participants learn to set goals, develop action plans, and implement projects that address the specific needs of marginalized communities. They gain skills in project management, resource mobilization, and measurement and evaluation to ensure that their efforts create sustainable and impactful change.

Reflection and Continuous Learning:
Leaders committed to social justice and philanthropy must engage in ongoing reflection and continuous learning. Participants are encouraged to reflect on their experiences, challenge their assumptions, and adapt their approaches based on feedback and new insights. They develop a growth mindset, seek out learning opportunities, and commit to a lifelong journey of improving their leadership skills and knowledge.

A comprehensive program on leadership, social justice, and philanthropy equips participants with a diverse set of skills necessary for empowering marginalized communities and driving positive change. From empathy and cultural competence to strategic thinking and decision-making, these skills enable leaders to navigate complex challenges, engage in inclusive practices, and create sustainable impact. By cultivating these key skills, individuals become catalysts for social justice, driving meaningful change and improving the lives of marginalized communities around the world.

In a world where sisterhood and philanthropy go hand in hand, Delta Kappa Nu Sorority stands as a beacon of empowerment and compassion. Founded in Australia, this social sorority is dedicated to fostering a sense of camaraderie among its members while actively engaging in philanthropic activities to uplift marginalized communities globally. Beyond its fun-filled gatherings and meaningful friendships, Delta Kappa Nu offers a host of benefits that contribute to the personal and social growth of its members. Let's explore the many advantages of being a part of this remarkable sisterhood.

Lifelong Friendships:
Delta Kappa Nu serves as a platform for forging deep and lasting friendships. By bringing together women from diverse backgrounds, the sorority creates a supportive network where bonds are nurtured and cherished. Whether it's through shared experiences, social events, or philanthropic endeavors, members of Delta Kappa Nu develop lifelong connections that extend far beyond their time in the sorority.

Personal Growth and Development:
Belonging to Delta Kappa Nu offers numerous opportunities for personal growth and development. The sorority provides a safe and inclusive space where members can explore their interests, talents, and strengths. Through leadership roles, mentoring programs, and skill-building workshops, Delta Kappa Nu empowers women to develop essential life skills, such as communication, teamwork, and organization. These experiences serve as a foundation for personal growth and enable members to become well-rounded individuals.

Philanthropy and Social Impact:
At the core of Delta Kappa Nu's values lies a deep commitment to philanthropy and making a positive difference in the world. The sorority actively engages in charitable contributions and volunteers in various community service projects. By participating in these initiatives, members gain a profound sense of purpose and fulfillment, as they witness firsthand the transformative impact their collective efforts can have on marginalized communities. Delta Kappa Nu empowers women to become compassionate leaders who drive change and contribute to society's betterment.

Networking and Professional Opportunities:
Being a part of Delta Kappa Nu opens doors to invaluable networking and professional opportunities. The sorority boasts a diverse membership base, including accomplished professionals from various fields. By connecting with these individuals, members gain access to a vast network of mentors, role models, and potential career connections. Delta Kappa Nu offers career development workshops, speaker series, and networking events, providing members with the tools and resources to thrive personally and professionally.

Delta Kappa Nu Sorority represents a profound sisterhood that combines friendship, personal growth, and philanthropy. By being a member of this exceptional sorority, women are provided with a platform to thrive individually while collectively making a positive impact on society. Through lifelong friendships, personal development, philanthropic endeavors, networking opportunities, and academic support, Delta Kappa Nu equips its members to become well-rounded pillars of the community. Together, they inspire change, spread joy, and create a brighter future for all.

Sororities are self-sustaining friendship organisations composed of women. Most commonly formed with students in colleges and universities in the United States and Canada. However, the sorority ideal is available to everyone, including those who have not attended higher education or who are from diverse backgrounds.
 
A sorority is an organisation whose purpose is to foster friendship and community, among other things
 
Membership in a sorority is a privilege, and all members are expected to exemplify the finest personal qualities and embody the qualities supported by the organisation.
 
Members promote cultural interests, provide service to others, cultivate friendships and continually strive to improve themselves.
 
Many of the basic tenets of sororities and fraternities are essentially the same, yet each is distinct to each specific organisation.
 
Each group fulfils its own purpose and serves the needs of its individual members by developing effective programs in scholarship, culture & diversity and community service and self-improvement.
 
Delta Kappa Nu seeks to provide life-long friendship, support and kindness to all its sister and to the world at large.

You’re interested in joining our sorority? We’d love to have you. You’re the type of person we look for: committed, enthusiastic, a leader. We think you’ll do great things here, and we hope that we’ll open some doors for you. You will make lifelong friendships, and hopefully, you’ll be the type of person whose positive impact will be felt here for many years.

This is the start of something really cool.

We know you have your reasons for joining, and we also know that the reasons you’ll stay will be entirely different. Trust us on that one. People tend to join for the image, the props, and the social stuff. They stay around for the friendships and because they find a place where they can impact the lives of others. It’s a family. We know this. Soon, you will, too.
Soon, these letters will be yours. But, there’s one lesson that we need to impress upon you before you sign your name on the dotted line, pay that first fee, and get that first t-shirt. It’s the single most important thing we’re going to ask of you, so you need to listen and understand it, now, before you say “yes.”
It’s the one most important thing that any fraternity or sorority can impress upon its new members. It’s the one lesson that every group must impress upon its newest members. Truly, our survival as an organization in this community, and nationwide, depends on you understanding this one simple lesson and taking it to heart.
It’s more important than our history, our traditions, our structure, or our rules. Because, if you don’t understand this most fundamental lesson, then none of the other stuff will matter. If you don’t get this one “golden rule of fraternity,” then your son or daughter won’t have this kind of organization to join someday, and all of this will just be a fuzzy memory.
Here it is. Ready?

From the moment you say yes to this organization, you are always wearing your letters.

I’m going to repeat it.

From the moment you say yes to this organization, you are always wearing your letters.

We’re not talking about t-shirts, or sweatshirts, or hats made in the colors of the group. We’re not talking about a tattoo on your ankle, some party favor, or a badge you wear on your dress shirt.
What we mean is that when you say yes to lifetime membership in this group, everything you say, do and represent from that moment forward is a direct reflection on this group, your sisters, and the thousands of members who have come before you. Everything you put out to the world is a direct reflection of this sorority. Every decision, every achievement, every mistake you make happens to all of us from this point forward.
When you go to the grocery store, you represent us. If you fall asleep in class or earn a weak grade, you represent us. When you drive down the road and slow down so a pedestrian can cross the street, you represent us.
When you turn 21 and hit the town, you represent us. When you become a leader of another organization, you represent us. When you insult someone or talk badly about another group, you represent us. When you break up with someone and make decisions about how you behave during that difficult time, you represent us. When you go on Spring Break, you represent us.
When you go home and sit at your mother’s dining room table, you represent us. When you get a job and go to work for a company or organization, you represent us. When you commit your life to that special person, someday, you represent us.

You are always wearing your letters.

From this day forward, always. Every day, in every situation. They never come off.
As surely as if you tattooed these letters on your forehead. It doesn’t matter if you’re wearing a jersey with our name on it, or a business suit at an interview. You have to assume that every person you meet will form a permanent opinion about fraternities – good or bad – based on how you interact with them. Every good thing you do builds us up. Every dumb thing you do tears us down.
We live in a time when the actions of one man or one woman can kill a group like ours. One person who acts in a way that is inconsistent with our shared values can end a years of tradition and pride. One choice you make on a Friday night can take away everything that generations of men have worked to build.
All the stuff you see that belongs to us can be boxed up or thrown out, because of the choices you make.
If this seems a little intense, that’s good. Because it’s serious. If it sounds like too much responsibility, or if you don’t think you can behave in a way that reflects well on us at all times, then walk away now. Do us the favor. We won’t think less of you. In fact, we’ll thank you. This sort of commitment isn’t for everybody.
But, don’t say yes unless you understand.
We’re not asking you to give up anything. We aren’t asking you to become something you aren’t. We’re asking you to become something more. We’re inviting you to become part of a group of men who make a promise to take care of each other, every day. We’re asking you to become the very best version of you that you can be.
We’re asking you to take a leap of maturity and to go to that place where you’re the same, honorable, dignified person on Saturday night as you are on Tuesday morning.
It’s a big deal, and not everyone can do it. Forget everything you’ve heard up to this point. Forget how much you might desire this, or how much we might want to bring you into the group. Just clear your mind and ask yourself one question.
Are you ready to never take them off?

Because when you say yes, you’re not just putting letters on a sweatshirt. You’re putting them in your heart. You’re forever stamping your identity with them. Everything you are, from this point on, becomes who we are.
You will make mistakes, and sisters will remind you of your commitment. There will be times where you will see other sisters forgetting their promise, and you’ll need to remind them. That’s part of this whole “sorority” thing. We work together to make ourselves better women who stand for something. We carry each other. We matter to one another.
If we’re doing sorority right, then we’ll make you a better woman. If you’re doing everything right, then you will make us a better organization. So, please think about it. Take it seriously. Because if you say yes, these letters belong to you as surely as they belonged to our founders. If you say yes, these letters become your responsibility forever.

That’s the promise.

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"In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back." - Camus

Everywhere you go, people talk about how to get fit and how to make your body stronger. Something we should consider as well is how to make our inner selves stronger.  Just as we can work on developing our physical strength by eating healthy foods and doing exercise, it’s equally important that we develop our inner strength.  

 The only way to make it through the twists and turns that life can throw at you is to have inside of you a well of strength to draw upon.

Here are some ideas of ways to help you build your inner strength.

1. Have a supportive community and find your tribe.

The most basic and instinctive need as humans is our need to belong and be connected to a tribe or a community. It’s one of the first levels on Maslow’s Hierarchy, a psychology theory that organizes our basic needs in our personal development.

We might want to go it alone, but that can make life  really difficult.  As humans, we have a built-in desire to belong. 

You can find community nearly everywhere, whether that is your sorority sisters, your close group of girlfriends, your family,  at your gym, church or work. You can even find communities with your interests on Facebook, on forums and on sites like Meetup.com.

Having a community to fall back on is the equivalent of having a back up net to catch you should you fall. 

2. Practice saying “No” and pick your battles wisely.

It can be very easy to take on extra commitments and obligations even when we don’t want to or don't have time. Sometimes we just can't help but say, "Yes, I'll do it."

When we take on responsibilities that we don’t have the time or energy to commit to, it can drain our reserves and make it difficult to take care of ourselves. 

 Saying “yes” to running the fundraiser at your child's school, or picking up an acquaintance at the airport when you really don’t have the time, is like purposely poking a hole in your tank and allowing your energy to leak out.

Not only does saying “no” free up time for yourself, it can be very empowering, and an unlikely source of strength. Pick and choose what things you want to do, and balance them with the things you must do.

By saying no to the things you really don’t want to do, you create a sense of inner strength while freeing up your time and energy to do the things that are going to serve you best.

3. Be thankful. 

Life can suck, but if you look around you, you'll find any number of things to be grateful for.

The joy you derive from the world around you is the fuel that'll push you through the hardest of times, so pay attention to what you have and enjoy it for what it's worth. 

And when you're having a hard time seeing just what it is you can be thankful for, your tribe can help you take a closer look at the things around you.

And if you're still having trouble, try giving back to your community. At least that way someone else will have something to be thankful for - you.


4. Remember that nothing is permanent. 

If you’re in the middle of a period of grief or pain that you can’t control, stand aside and let the moment happen. If you are going through a prolonged period of difficulty, remind yourself that this, too, shall pass.

But there is also no shame is asking for help if you need it. And we all need it sometimes.

If you work on your inner strength you will be able, with the help of your friends, to overcome anything life throws at you.

You might be wondering what the point of joining a sorority is? Guys are cool, why wouldn't you want to hang out with them too?

You definitely should take the time to get to know different men, in many different settings and social scenarios. Your best friend could be a man, you could spend most of your time with the football team. However, there is always a room for a female only space. Even the most tomboyish tomboy can get value from true friendships with other women.

When you are with your sisters, you can give anything a try. No one will make fun of you or degrade you.
When you are wtih your sisters, you can discuss those matters and issues that are close to you without feeling embarassed or ashamed.
When you are with your sisters, you can feel valued for the contribution you make, not for the colour of your hair, or the curve of your ... chin.
When you are with your sisters, you can rely on an honest opinion and an open frankness.
When you are with your sisters, you can offer this to your sisters and expect the same in return.

That's where we see the value in our sorority - what about you?

"The sorority idea means close friendship fostered by long association in common interests. The sorority ideal is the symmetrically developed woman, the result of close confidence and lasting friendships with a few congenial spirits." – Ida Shaw Martin, The Sorority Handbook, 1909, p23

Why join a sorority? Especially a non-collegiate one. Why would you join an organisation which from what you've seen in the movies is primarily about drinking with frat guys and hazing pledges during your stay at a 4 year residential college? Doesn't that seem like a stupid thing to do?

I can't answer for you, but for me, a sorority is more than just the social trappings that show up so well in American college movies. It's more than wearing letters on your chest, decorated picture frames and golden college days.

 A sorority is about sisterhood. It is about choosing the women to be a part of your family - not just good friends - but sisters who you can share your hopes and dreams with, who will support you in times of trouble and who will be honest with you when you're doing something stupid. And not just having sisters at college, but for the rest of your life. It's about trusting women in other parts of the world, who were chosen to be sorority sisters, to be your sisters. It's a life long commitment to the ideals and principles on which your sorority was founded.

In short, joining a non-collegiate sorority is about making a commitment to other women - particularly outside of joining because your roommate was doing it too.

- Elise Melican
President, 2013